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In her book "She Flies Without Wings", Mary
Midkiff talks about how the loss of
remembered childhood magical moments is
recaptured when a women makes connection
with horses. Here is a quote from the chapter
"Spirituality":
[In childhood] "Every new discovery -- about
nature, about the world we lived in, about our
bodies and selves -- held the potential of
giving us that tingle of magic's presence. For
some of us, rituals held magic. Specific sights
or smells could evoke it, or even certain
people. As children, magical possibilities
seemed limitless.....Then we grew up and the
magic faded."
[In Womanhood] "In womanhood, horses do
seem miraculous. They lift us up, fuse our
bodies and motion into theirs, and take us
places we could never go alone. Our legs
become one with their legs and through their
eyes we see a natural world we may have
stopped seeing long ago.....Everytime a
horsewoman mounts a horse, she feels at
least a tiny buzz of anticipation that's akin to
the tingle of enchantment. Throughout her
body, the cells of her muscles and joints and
sinews sigh and smile and whisper Ah, yes!
We remember this!....Instead of speaking with
the tools and words of human communication,
she speaks to the horse through her
movements and her spirit. In the exchange,
she regains her wonder, and her wonder
replenishes her."
You know you are a
horse person if:
There is a little bit
of hay in the pocket
of every coat you
own (including
your dress coat).
Your horse's stall is
clean, but your own
bedroom is a mess.
You haven't had a
manicure or
pedicure in months,
but your horse's feet
are kept
immaculately
trimmed.
You spent hours
pouring
over horse
magazines and tack
supply catalogs, but
haven't
read a fashion
magazine in
months.
You decide to
forego purchasing a
new pair of dress
shoes for yourself,
in order to buy that
new bridle and reins
you saw in the
Dover tack catalog.